How do you handle the following hurtful words… Would it make a difference of who said it to you? A spouse, a friend, a family member or your adult child ?   ‘You have nothing of value, what do you expect us to do with your things when you die, take it to goodwill or a dumpster?’ This statement shocked me to my core, was a very painful thing to hear. Not only is it disrespectful, but it is also dismissive and  cutting. I don’t need to justify my worth or my life through posses